{"id":4585,"date":"2010-01-05T09:45:24","date_gmt":"2010-01-05T14:45:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/2parse.com\/?p=4585"},"modified":"2010-01-05T09:45:24","modified_gmt":"2010-01-05T14:45:24","slug":"a-recovering-procrastinator-of-pleasure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/?p=4585","title":{"rendered":"A recovering procrastinator of pleasure"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" title=\"From the Empire State Building\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3448\/3307277624_896e7ce8a0.jpg?resize=500%2C333\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/12\/29\/science\/29tier.html\">John Tierney<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Acknowledge what you are: a recovering procrastinator of pleasure.<\/p>\n<p>It sounds odd, but this is actually a widespread form of procrastination \u2014 just ask the airlines and other marketers who save billions of dollars annually from gift certificates that expire unredeemed.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Indeed, I have never visited the Empire State Building, the Statue of Liberty, the New York Stock Exchange, or almost any other Manhattan landmarks &#8211; which I have at times taken as a kind of metaphor for my years as a twentysomething. As I wrote in an email last year, edited to provide context:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I was thinking &#8211; while walking back to Penn &#8211;\u00a0about how you said that now was the time to visit the\u00a0Empire\u00a0State\u00a0Building, to stop living for the weekends, to stop being held back by my commute, my daily routines:<\/p>\n<p>I know I over think things; that I choose the safe, dependable<br \/>\npleasures over the riskier joys too often; I probably need to be<br \/>\npushed and to push myself to say, &#8220;Yes,&#8221; more often. But though I<br \/>\nsometimes get stuck in a kind of rut, I do have a tendency to make<br \/>\nbold moves when I reach a certain point.<\/p>\n<p>But I&#8217;m not going to regret missing out on the\u00a0Empire\u00a0State\u00a0Building.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to regret if I don&#8217;t write a novel.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to regret if I don&#8217;t run for Congress.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to regret if I don&#8217;t spend at least a year travelling abroad.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to regret if I don&#8217;t have a child, if I don&#8217;t live for some<br \/>\ntime in Manhattan, if I don&#8217;t give enough to charity.<br \/>\nI&#8217;m going to regret if I lose an opportunity because I was afraid it<br \/>\nwouldn&#8217;t work out.<\/p>\n<p>Which I suppose was your point.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>[Image by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/photosnocturnes\/3307277624\/\">64iso<\/a> licensed under Creative Commons.]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>John Tierney: Acknowledge what you are: a recovering procrastinator of pleasure. It sounds odd, but this is actually a widespread form of procrastination \u2014 just ask the airlines and other marketers who save billions of dollars annually from gift certificates that expire unredeemed. Indeed, I have never visited the Empire State Building, the Statue of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[26],"tags":[2513,2503,2502,2501,148],"class_list":["post-4585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","tag-empire-state-building","tag-john-tierney","tag-pleasure","tag-procrastination","tag-the-new-york-times"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8qcx-1bX","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4585"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4585\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4603,"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4585\/revisions\/4603"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/2parse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}